Why do Guys Assume if they buy a Girl a Drink they can Hit on Them?

Hello fair weathered males who love to bar hop…this article is just for you guys! Have you ever been tempted to buy some random girl that you fancied a drink just to get a chance to meet her and say hello at the bar? Well guess what? This is a terrible move that says many things about your aperture and demeanor! Read on to know why you should avoid this at all costs! Top Three Reasons not to Buy a Girl You Don’t Know a Drink at the Bar! There are millions of great reasons why you should not buy a girl that you don’t know a drink at the bar for the sheer sake of hitting on her. But obviously I have to limit my rants and raves on this drinking subject to three for the sake of the limited length of these daily posts. That being said…here are – in my opinion – the top three reasons never to do this! 1. You are automatically demonstrating a weakness. By assuming that you must spend money to meet a nice girl, you are already saying, “Hey I am that sleazy guy that thinks he can buy his way into your heart!” 2. Buying somebody that you don’t know a drink for the sheer sake of hitting on them already demonstrates that you are a weak minded individual who thinks that money can resolve all issues. Women want strong men who are confident. If you are, the drink doesn’t matter…just go up and start chatting with her already! 3. Cliché as apple pie! This move is so cliché that it is not even funny people. And most women will recall that nearly every other guy in their lives who pulled this move tended to turn out to be a real douchebag. Make Sense? See What this Dating Coach has to Say About This! Calling all guys who think that the fastest way to work up a conversation with a girl is to purchase them a drink at the bar: guess again fellows! This is actually a big time mishap that many men think will automatically garner them a decent conversation and a chance at getting a phone number, or something more. When in reality women will just take your free drink and once they feel they have chatted enough with you – in most cases – you are useless to them. Don’t take my word for it! This dating coach (in the video below) explains in great details why this is always a farce for men trying to pick up girls in a bar!