Give kids freedom to foster creativity

Locked up kids just can’t be creative—and then they can’t solve global problems, either.

If there’s a single trait that is valued most by leaders and scientists, business people and employers, it’s creativity. Everyone is born creative; we simply lose our creativity as we are forced to conform to societal standards. You there reading this—you are creative regarding something. Maybe it’s arranging flowers or planning parties, telling tall tales or building things with metal or wood. You may not even think you’re creative, but you can whip up a gourmet dinner with a bottle of ketchup and two cucumbers. That’s pretty darn creative.

The more we aren’t allowed to practice our creativity, however, the more we lose it. It’s like any other muscle that doesn’t get exercise. And the more we lock up our kids, forcing them to do endless hours of meaningless homework or prepare for stupid standardized tests, the less creative they are. The less freedom they have correlates with, and perhaps causes, the decline of their creativity.

It makes perfect sense, too. If you have two hours each night to yourself and you could spend it playing, discovering, or even reading for pleasure, or you could spend it doing assigned work, which one is going to make you more creative? Do you think if Einstein, Edison, and Franklin hadn’t had the time to make mistake after mistake, learning more each time and creatively developing new solutions and creations, they would have ever made any discoveries? Had our nation’s leaders and innovative thinkers been assigned the homework and standardized tests that modern day children receive, we wouldn’t have half of the inventions we depend upon for our standard of living today.

Am I advocating for no homework? That’s an emphatic yes. I won’t even say, “But I know that’s impossible,” because it’s completely possible. I also think we need to nix standardized tests. If colleges want them, fine—let kids deal with them in the late high school years for college. Otherwise, give them time to be kids and really stretch those imaginative muscles—not just for their own sakes, but for ours, too. The fewer imaginative people we have in this world, the less colorful it is for us all—and the fewer solutions we’ll be able to come up with for the plethora of problems we face in this modern age.

Give your kids a minimum of two hours a day of daydreaming time. Let them play, build stuff out of string, make giant slingshots in your front yard out of jump rope and see what happens when they take apart an old toaster (in fact, BUY old stuff at yard sales for a few cents so they can do this!). What seems like nonsense or wasted time to you is actually genius at work.

One Billion Rising

This year’s V-Day campaign calls for dancing and taking action in your community.

Anne Hathaway, Jane Fonda, Alice Walker, Lily Tomlin and many more women will be joining the One Billion Rising campaign on February 14 as this year’s big global V-Day event. Typically, V-Day—or Violence Against Women Day, not Valentine’s Day—includes performances of Eve Ensler’s The Vagina Monologues and other demonstrations, walks and events to raise awareness against the violence.

Many of these movement activities also raise money for local women’s shelters or other services as well. This year, in honor of V-Day’s 15th anniversary, women all over the planet will be standing up, dancing, marching, or otherwise taking action against violence worldwide against women.

One in three women will be abused sexually or physically in her lifetime, and it’s high past time the world takes a stand against such heinousness. The website of the movement is incredibly inspiring (but also features trigger warnings), with lots of ideas for taking action, including incredible dances and tool kits. There’s also a place where you can find an activity in your area to sign up with or create your own.

Be sure to visit the site to find out more information and watch these videos, buy merchandise and get involved. You can get Anne Hathaway’s famous One Billion Rising T-shirt at the website as well.

Barbie activities for all ages

I’m not a fan of the Barb, but I could get behind these activities.

Though I have written over and over again about how much I dislike Barbie dolls for a wide variety of reasons, I have come across a few activities that make me think that the toy might have some potential. I’m not giving it a green light as a pretend toy for role playing of real human behavior until it gets proportionate, but that’s unlikely to happen anytime soon. So how about we do these two activities with the toy instead…

Pretend funeral. You can pad Barb down with cotton balls or clay under her clothing to look a little more realistic if you prefer, but simply putting her in a box and burying her can help you explain about death and role play for future funerals—or just play with morbid kids. Hey, I liked the idea of zombies and such when I was a kid, too. Of course, you could go a step further…

Mummy Barbie. The fact that I can link this to someone else’s blog makes me feel much better about my own macabre ideas. I am not alone! This lesson plan goes all out, including canopic jars for Barbie’s organs and linen wrap for her corpse. You can make organs to store, and guess what? Barbie already looks like they’re taken out of her body, so you don’t have to do any cutting. Neat!

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